blessings in disguise
But most significantly, the sermon was really good. the priest basically said that when God gave humans free will, He no longer has any control over the decisions that we make. even when God wants to help, He is unable to intervene due to our free will. it is only when we give Him permission to change things that he will assist us in our troubles.
sometimes, we go around angrily wondering where God is when we need Him. but He's always there, and we're the ones who are blind.
sometimes, all you have to do, is ask.
i hope i never forget that.